Praise be to Allaah.
If this girl is religiously
committed and of good character, then there is no reason why you should not
propose to her again, then complete the marriage contract with her, so long
as both of you want to get married. We ask Allaah to make good easy for you
wherever it is, and to make it a happy and blessed marriage.
It is prescribed for the
one who wants to get married to pray istikhaarah, asking Allaah for
guidance, and to mention by name the girl whom he wants to marry. The girl
should also do likewise. If the matter then goes ahead smoothly with no
problems, that is a sign that it is good to go ahead and complete the
marriage contract, but if he encounters any obstacles that is a sign that
Allaah is diverting him from going ahead.
Istikhaarah does not depend
on dreams as some people think. We have discussed istikhaarah and how it is
to be done, and commented on the hadeeth about it, in the answer to question
no. 11981 and
We do not know how to
And Allaah knows best.